Just
when I thought it couldn't get any colder, I crossed over the North
Dakota border. Not that I was surprised, I simply consider myself an
optimist and therefore naive.
North
Dakota is unfortunately one of the least visited states in the Union.
I had a few of the fine citizens inform me that it is the
least traveled. (Not sure if they were saying that as a mark of
honor.) I know people are always complaining that it is too cold or
too hot or too boring to drive through or the people are too
friendly, or the bison are in the middle of the road, or {fill in the
blank}. I just don't buy it.
Wonderful
people like Theodore Roosevelt had this to say about the state: “I grow very fond of this place, and it certainly has a desolate, grim beauty of its own, that has a curious fascination for me.” I can
only echo those words and say they are true for my experience as
well, but I also add to them in regards to the large-hearted people
scattered everywhere across the territory.
After
driving the four hundred mile plus miles from Billings to Bismarck, I
settled into the city. I had a mix up in the housing department which
left me without shelter for the evening. (Must I remind you that the
temperatures never made it above zero the entire time I was in the
state. That first night, the forecast called for negative twenty five
(without wind chill). Let me just cut to the chase to tell you I
spent the night in the Best Western, not because I chose to, or paid
to stay there, but a stranger I helped at a quarter to two in the
morning, put me up for the night. (Click here for the full story.) I
spent the next few nights in the capital city staying on an available
mattress someone from courchsurfing.org (Benjamin and crew) just
happened to have laying around. (Thanks guys! Nice to glean an
understanding of your world. Best of winds and safe travels in your
own adventures.)
I
braved the cold and went in search of people to help. I came to a
very quick conclusion that people in the frozen tundra don't go
outside when it hits these sub-human temps. I checked with some great
organizations, but because of the weather, the opportunities to serve
just weren't there. When this happens, I usually get a little worried
that I won't meet my goals...oh me of little faith...
I
stepped into the offices of the United Way of the Missouri Slope to
find the same answer to my question: is there anywhere I can serve?
They were fully staffed but took me down the hall to the RSVP+ office
which shared the building. Success!
My
instructions were to head over to help the Mental Health America of North Dakota follow up with phone calls to see if people got their
invitation to the annual Celebration of Lights. I took to the phones
in a furry and finished the five page list in a matter of hours.
MHAofND hosts a variety of programs aimed to help people with and
people who are around those with mental health issues. It was a
privilege to work along side them.
While
working with MHAofND, I got a call from the United Way informing me
that they needed my help the following day to hang up banners on the
downtown parking ramps. I jumped on the offer to serve. We spent the
morning picking up the signs, getting the fastening chords, and
swapping gloves while the cold nipped away at our hands. The signs
made it up and the message was clear: “99% of your donation stays
in your local community!” I was treated to lunch and then to an
interview by CBS12 out of Bismarck. (Click here to watch the interview.)
I
also got involved with the Central Dakota Humane Society walking
dogs. It's easy to forget about these cuddly creatures when it's so
cold outside, but they still need to be taken care of. I can honestly
say that the coldest I've ever been was there walking a dozen dogs in
negative seventeen degrees (thirty-five below with wind). Those dogs
were so adorable and in need of a good, long-legged walk, I came back
a second time, right before traveling another two hundred to Fargo.
I
left for Fargo knowing I had a nice warm place to stay, thanks to my
second cousin Noel and his wonderful family, whom I hadn't seen for
over eight years. I pulled into town...got lost...got found...got
lost again...and then finally parked outside my destination. One of
the perks to doing a journey like this is catching up with a lot of
people you don't see on a normal basis. I thoroughly enjoyed my time
with my cousins and am overly appreciative of them letting me stay
even though I was there during a scheduled slumber party and an
unscheduled sickness going through the family.
Fargo
brought with it a host of great places to volunteer! I was connected
with the RSVP+ office in Fargo and was connected with two
organizations. The first was the Great Plains Food Bank and the
second was the Fargo/Moorhead Community Bike Workshop.
The
Great Plains Food Bank touches the lives of more than 52,000
children, seniors and working families each year who struggle with,
or are at risk of hunger. Each year over 5 million pounds of surplus
food is donated by local, regional and national food industry
partners... [which] is then distributed to people in need through...
[their] statewide network of 230 member food shelves, emergency
shelters, soup kitchens and other charitable feeding program in 80
communities.” Turns out that the GPFB is the only food bank in the
state which means they oversee a lot of food!
I
have a few different tasks to work on over the course of my time
there: cutting forms, creating manuals, putting together food boxes,
and stacking pallets. I spent most of my time tackling the giant bins
of food brought in from a local school drive and ordering a variety
of those items into manageable boxes which would then be loaded onto
trucks and shipped to the counties around the state. Many people
would look at that job as boring, I thought the complete opposite! I
imagined the people these boxes would get handed to and the relief on
their faces when they were offered a way for them to make ends meet.
There's so much more that goes into those boxes then just food. They
bring comfort and hope to people who really need help.
I
can't pass up the opportunity to thank the kind folks at Great Plains
for taking me out to lunch and for helping me get connected with the
local media. (Click here to watch the interview.) They really were a
fun crew to get to know and was made even better by their delightful
Scandinavian accents. Also, they blew me out of the water by sending
me away with all kinds of gifts and a lot of kind words. I've told
them to keep a truck driving job available for me when the whole
adventure ends.
On
Thursday night, I had the opportunity to check out something that
made me super curious when I was initially told about it. That being
the F/M Community Bike Workshop in downtown Fargo. I got
down-and-dirty stripping old bikes of their usable parts and even
messier putting a bike back together (thanks to the peddle grease).
The purpose of the FMCBW is to be “a community-run learning
space, committed to the reclamation and distribution of recycled
bicycles by providing tools, education and an inclusive space for all
members of our diverse community.” In a nutshell, they try to get
bikes out to people who need transportation.
It was great to hear that they have
been helping many people in the community, but it's not just by
giving the bikes away. The individual commits to volunteering at the
workshop for at least seven hours and learns how to take care of bike
and is invited back anytime to keep it well maintained.
I
really think the community bike workshop idea is a great one. Google
“community bike workshop” plus your city's name to get connected
with an organization like this one near you. And even though I was
reminded that I really have no idea what I'm doing mechanically, I
was brought to cheer knowing there are places for everyone to get
involved with.
After
saying goodbye to all the fine people I met in North Dakota, I hopped
over the Red River into Minnesota. (Don'tcha know.)